No matter how long you have been sober, relapse is always in the realm of possibility for someone in addiction recovery. Because of this, a relapse prevention plan is key in maintaining long-term sobriety. You have put in the hard work during treatment, so before you leave, be sure to understand the stages and warning signs of relapse and learn the coping skills to overcome any problems.
A Three-Part Process
Relapse doesn’t happen overnight. There are three stages involved before someone reaches for a drink or abuses a substance.
- Emotional Relapse: In this stage, you are not yet thinking about using, but your emotions and behaviors are setting you up for relapse. This can include feelings of anxiety, skipping meetings or poor eating and sleeping habits.
- Mental Relapse: Getting treatment help is critical in this phase. During this time, the part of you who wants to use is in direct conflict with the part of you who does not. The signs of relapse can be hanging out with old friends who use and glamourizing past drinking or drug abuse.
- Physical Relapse: This is the act of actually relapsing and using drugs or alcohol again.
Common Causes of Relapse
Relapse doesn’t just happen out of nowhere. Common causes or triggers to look out for include:
– Negative emotions
– Drug-related pressures
– Lack of support
– Unhealthy environment
– Poor self-care
– Uncomfortable feelings (ie. hunger, anger, loneliness, feeling tired)
Know the Warning Signs
One of the most successful methods of preventing relapse is learning how to recognize warning signs in the various phases so you can seek help immediately.
Early Relapse Prevention
Prevention at this early stage is when you are in emotional relapse and you recognize that your behavior is changing. It’s important to fight back the feeling of isolation and reach out for help. Now is also the time to practice relaxation techniques and proper self-care. This includes getting plenty of sleep and practicing good eating habits.
Dealing with Mental Urges
Learn how to overcome the warning signs during the mental relapse phase:
- Think it through: You cannot control your use even if you believe you can. Think through your past mistakes and realize that one drink or one use will lead to many more
- Tell someone you are having urges
- Distract yourself: Go to a meeting or find something to take your mind off using
- Wait 30 minutes: Make yourself wait before using
- Continue to do your recovery one day at a time
- Make relaxation a priority
- Have emergency contacts set up and ready to help you when you need them
What to do if You Actually Relapse
If you do physically relapse, don’t try to hide it or feel ashamed. Instead, contact your sponsor and get back into treatment as soon as possible to ensure you get back on the recovery path quickly.
Getting Help at any Stage
Remember that setbacks are normal in any recovery process, but recognizing the warning signs can help you avoid major pitfalls. A relapse prevention plan formed during your treatment is the best way to get through those difficult moments. The goal is to address these challenges before they even occur, so you are equipped for any issues when you leave treatment. For more information on how a good program can reduce the risk of relapse, contact us today.